Mourn Porn

This is one thing I won’t fault him for. Maybe the only thing. But for real. Grieving should be allowed but not enforced. No use for mourn porn. When my father’s father died, he flew to England for a fortnight to see if his mother was alright, but apart from that, he was his usual jaunty self. And when he died? I basically did the same thing without the intercontinental flight because I was already living with my mother. And I’d just been to England over the summer. And no one who’d been within a mile of either my father or me would include heartlessness on a list of our faults.